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Special Offer: Removing Energetic Cords of Attachment + Meet Your Spirit Guide Team!

mooring-rope-238925_150Imagine you have two ropes between you and another person – one white and one gray.

The white rope is chock full of all the fun you’ve had, nifty vacations, and the joy you both have when with each other.  That’s the Spiritual Tie.

The gray rope is full of the arguments, the time she was snitty with you and it hurt your feelings and the three times you didn’t really listen when she was sad.

That gray rope? It’s a crappy cord of attachment.

While you will never, ever lose the spiritual tie with another, you can release that blasted cord of attachment any time you like.

Yes, you can let go of your end of the gray rope and by doing so, release all the energy that’s flowing back and forth between you – the hurt feelings, the anger, even the competition.

Just drop that end of the rope.

But you get to keep holding on to the white rope and continue to feel all the joy that’s between you two.  You don’t have to hold both ropes – just the one that makes you happy.

Energetic cords of attachment (that yucky gray rope) hold the energetic patterns between you and someone else – primarily the toxic patterns between you. Even when you end the relationship with someone, the patterns set in place during the time you were together flow back and forth in that cord 24/7.

When you remove the cord you essentially unplug from that toxic energy and opens you up to hold your own feelings without being influenced by the toxic stuff of another. It’s like unplugging a noisy air conditioner that no longer works well. It’s just noisy and you’re hot all the time, right?

Wouldn’t it be nice to just turn that off? Instant relief!

If you’ve got these patterns going on in your energy field all the time, they are affecting you on several levels – many of those levels are unconscious. But whether conscious or not, they affect you. How could they not?

Common cords of attachment are between parent and child, current and ex-spouses and partners, co-workers, friends — anywhere you feel a big “charge” around a person.

Three reasons to remove energetic cords of attachment

NUMBER 1: You are being affected every single minute by these toxic energies

Whether the flow of energy is into you or out of you, you are being affected on many levels – mentally, emotionally, intuitively … and in ways you might not see.

By removing that energy flow (in whichever way it’s going) you take back what is yours and use it for your own benefit.

Example: Let’s say that Sally and her friend had a big fight over that boyfriend from ten years ago. And while Sally has forgiven her friend for her part in the mess, secretly (in a place no one wants to admit to) Sally is still mad at her. She feels betrayed and angry.

Which way is the energy flowing in this case? Most likely FROM Sally TO her friend and in that cord are all those things Sally doesn’t want to talk about: betrayal, sure. Anger, yep.

But what about sadness, and feeling “less than” her because her boyfriend left for her friend? All that and so much more are running around in Sally’s energy field 24/7.

Really. It is.

By removing that cord, Sally is able to stop all that yuck from flowing out of her into her friend. She gets to use that energy she was putting out (on an unconscious level) for her own benefit. How nice to get a big WHOOOSH! of your own energy back, eh?

NUMBER 2: You come to an understanding of the dynamics that play(ed) out in the relationship.

When I peer into the cord and the energies it contained and share that, it helps validate for you what was really going on between you and that person. Where was the flow of energy? What did it say about the relationship overall? Lots of light bulb moments show up in this part of the healing work.  

“Awareness is 99% of everything” says my coach Jaelin Reece.  And it is.  Having an understanding of the energetic dynamics helps you see where else that’s going on in your life.

NUMBER 3:  You are just ending the toxic flow of energies between you and another. By cutting the cord of attachment, you’re not taking that person out of your life.

Sometimes, I get asked if cutting the cord means you’ll lose the relationship.

Not at all.

You now get to make that choice now FREE of all the yuck clouding the picture.

Example: Say you cut the cord with that annoying co-worker. You’ll still see them and can choose to engage with them on any level you want. What’s different, though, is the *charge* between you now is removed. Maybe it bugged you whenever they left early while you stayed and worked.

After removing this cord, it might feel like you’re just watching a movie of someone leaving work early rather than hearing the same old refrain in your head “How come she gets to do whatever she wants and I’m stuck here. My life sucks. I need a new job.” and on and on and on. Much easier to deal with from a distance, I think.

A session of energetic cord removal won’t make you taller, thinner (damn!) or smarter. But it will help you get rid of some toxic junk floating around in your energy field and allow you to see even more clearly what you want. I think that’s a lovely benefit!

Want to know even more about energetic cords of attachment? Here you go! Read on, McDuff!


Here’s a special offer good through February 28th, 2014:

When you purchase a session of energetic cord removal, I’ll give you as a bonus a separate 30 minute session to talk with your Guide Team!  (That’s a $125 value and it’s my gift to you.)

1. Click the green button below to purchase your session at the usual investment ($247 for a 60 minute recorded call)

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2: You’ll receive a link to schedule your appointment – pick out the time that’s right for you.

3: Meet me on the conference line for our time together.

4: Schedule your bonus 30 minute appointment after our session.

5: Meet your Guide team as I channel them through like we’re sitting at Starbucks!

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Freedom + a heart-to-heart chat with your Spirit Guides (a $397 value) just $247.






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Small Print

1) You do not need to have your session(s) before February 28th. You just need to schedule the appointment before that date.
2) Offer expires midnight (eastern time) February 28th, 2014
3) Questions? Feel free to email me with anything you’d like to ask.

3 Reasons to cut a cord of attachment

We all have them.

You know what I mean. Don’t pretend you don’t.

Them.

** Relatives who manage to get under our skin.
** Co-workers who get away with murder while we dutifully do our jobs and get passed over for raises.
** That friend from ten years ago who stole your boyfriend right out from under your nose.

Them.

Every time you think about them you get annoyed and pissed all over again. All the old feelings get stirred up out of nowhere.

Cases like these (and a bunch of others) are really good reasons to sever those energetic cords of attachment. Why? Because it helps remove that *charge* you feel when thinking about them or the situation. And how nice is it to have that neutralized so you can put that energy toward fun stuff?

Back when I was practicing my cord-cutting skills on some lovely volunteers, it was a common occurrence for them to remark that they had no idea how helpful cutting those cords could be. I think that’s the beauty of the work, though. Theoretically, it makes sense, but until you experience how it works for you – in your own life – you might not see how powerful this healing work can be.

I’ve written about just what cords of attachment are here and here but in a nutshell, a cord of attachment is an energetic structure that allows patterns from the past to continue into the present affecting your daily life.

*** Three good reasons to remove those cords permanently ***

 

NUMBER ONE:  Either energy is flowing OUT of you INTO another – or – flowing INTO you FROM another. Either way, you are being affected on many levels – mentally, emotionally, intuitively … and in ways you might not see.

By removing that energy flow (in whichever way it’s going) you take back what is yours and use it for your own benefit.

Example: Let’s say that Sally and her friend had a big fight over that boyfriend from ten years ago. And while Sally has forgiven her friend for her part in the mess, secretly (in a place no one wants to admit to) Sally is still mad at her. She feels betrayed and angry.

Which way is the energy flowing in this case? Most likely FROM Sally TO her friend and in that cord are all those things Sally doesn’t want to talk about: betrayal, sure. Anger, yep. But what about sadness, and feeling “less than” her because her boyfriend left for her friend? All that and so much more are running around in Sally’s energy field 24/7. Really. It is.

By removing that cord, Sally is able to stop all that yuck from flowing out of her into her friend. She gets to use that energy she was putting out (on an unconscious level) for her own benefit. How nice to get a big WHOOOSH! of your own energy back, eh?

NUMBER 2: You come to an understanding of the dynamics that play(ed) out in the relationship.

When I peer into the cord and the energies it contained and share that, it helps validate for you what was really going on between you and that person. Where was the flow of energy? What did it say about the relationship overall? Lots of light bulb moments show up in this part of the healing work.

NUMBER 3: By cutting the cord of attachment, you’re not cutting the person out of your life. You are just ending the flow of toxic energy between you.

Sometimes, I get asked if cutting the cord means you’ll lose the relationship. Not at all. You get to make that choice now FREE of all the yuck clouding the picture.

Say, for example, you cut the cord with that annoying co-worker. You’ll still see them and can choose to engage with them on any level you want. What’s different, though, is the *charge* between you now is removed.

Maybe it bugged you whenever they left early while you stayed and worked. After removing this cord, it might feel like you’re just watching a movie of someone leaving work early rather than hearing the same old refrain in your head “How come she gets to do whatever she wants and I’m stuck here. My life sucks. I need a new job.” and on and on and on. Much easier to deal with from a distance, I think.

BOTTOM LINE:  A cord-cutting won’t make you taller, thinner (damn!) or smarter. But it will help you get rid of some toxic junk floating around in your energy field and allow you to see even more clearly what you want. I think that’s a lovely benefit!

There’s so much more to say about this subject.  Look for another installment of  “As the Cord Turns” on a future podcast.  🙂

If you want to read a few testimonials from some of my clients about this healing work, check out the Testimonials page.

And if you’ve had a cord cut and you want to share how it affected your life, I’d love to hear about it!  (Doesn’t even have to be from me – lots of practitioners do this work!)

Finally, if you think this might be something you’d like to try, I welcome your email.  Big shifts happen through this work all the time.  Are you ready?

Trust What You Get – Preview Call

Are you comfortable trusting the guidance that comes through to you? I mean REALLY trust it? Enough to act on it?

I’m finding many of my clients get stuck on that part. They ask for guidance, get something (not sure if it’s guidance or something they just made up somehow) and then it seems to go off track from there. Acting on what you receive is the most important piece of the whole puzzle! Is it lack of courage? Not usually. It’s more like they haven’t learned to trust what they get so they can run with it and feel safe doing so.

I live my life by my intuitional guidance. My Guides, Teachers and Angels assist me in getting to where I want to go and together we make really cool stuff happen. You can do the same thing – everyone can. It’s just a matter of learning how.

Come listen in to the FREE 30 minute preview call I’m hosting on Wednesday March 2 at 8pm eastern where I’ll talk a bit about my upcoming tele-class called “Trust What You Get”. The class begins on March 8th and runs for three weeks (one night each week).

If you’re curious about it’s like to your life by your intuition, join me on the call to discuss that and more! Just sign up below and I’ll see you on the call!

February is all about love

So, here on Practically Intuitive, I’m going to do something really special for the month because you know me when I get a “nudge”, right?

I’m part of a group of people who donate each month to It Starts With Us, dedicated to ” building a global community of individuals focused on making a positive impact in the lives of the people around them.”

Here’s what they say about this month’s mission:

“In January we brought in around $5,000, of which we gave Jill around $2,500, as well as many other gifts of goods and services from team members all over the world. For this month, February, we chose a recipient family that really, really touched our hearts, and in doing so we took on a challenge that is well beyond the strength of our team at the moment.

Here’s the story in a nutshell: The Rewolinski family consists of a mom, a dad, and three children. The two older boys (Ethan, 7 and Alex, 6) are autistic and need constant attention. The family has been trying to obtain a specially trained service dog to help with the boys . . . especially to stay near Alex, who will attempt to run away at any time. They’re all ready to have a dog placed in their home by a wonderful organization called 4 Paws for Ability. I know it’s a fantastic organization because J. and I took a trip down to Ohio to inspect the facility and make sure it was awesome (which it was).

4 Paws works with the family to place a dog in their home, free of charge and with no waiting list. The one thing the family must agree to do is provide $13,000 worth of fundraising for 4 Paws, which is a non-profit organization.

And that’s where Love Drop comes in.

We made it our goal this month to help them raise the $13,000 necessary to get them started training with their dog and get it placed in their home as soon as possible. Great goal, powerful story, amazing thing our community can help out with this month, right? Right. Except with our business model, we’d have to bring in double that revenue in the form of contributions to make it happen. And we’re simply not there yet – we just launched this project a month ago, and our membership is still small.

Good cause, eh?

Here’s where we come in: I am donating all proceeds from readings now through February 28th to help them reach the $13,000 goal. But I’m going to make it really, really easy for you to jump in and help!

How you can help

For a donation of $25 to 4 Paws for Ability, you will get a 30 minute phone reading with me (use whenever you want)


For a donation of $50, you will get a one hour session with me (can be a reading, cord cutting … whatever you wish to use whenever you want)


For a donation of $100 or more, you will get a 2 sessions with me: one 30 minute and one 60 minute to use whenever you want. (Reading, healing, coaching, mentoring … your choice)


How you can donate

1) Give money through Love Drop
You can do this quickly and easily on our site here: http://www.lovedrop.us/get-involved. There are directions provided to subscribe monthly via PayPal, to do a one-time donation via PayPal, or give by credit card or physical check. We will make sure that everything we get this month (up to $13,000) goes straight over to 4 Paws and is accounted for correctly. If you’re an individual or business that gives a significant amount, we will include your information on our “Friends of Ethan and Alex” page here.

2) Give money directly to 4 Paws
If you want to make a larger, tax-deductible donation directly to 4 Paws, you can do so here: http://www.4pawsforability.org/donation.html. (Just make very sure to note that the money goes toward the Alex Rewolinski account.)

Once you’ve made your donation, please email me and send me your paypal receipt or other proof of donation and we’ll get your appointment on the books.

(email address is Lisa [at] practicallyintuitive.com)

Please check the Love Drop site to read more about their mission and work.  They are truly “being the change” in this world.

We can do that, too.

Come to my window

As I was doing an email reading the other night, I thought it might be kind of fun for me to let you peek behind the curtain and see how it all comes together.  Readings done via email are a bit different from those done in person and it depends on what you’re seeking as to which kind of reading might be more appropriate.

If you’re the kind of person who likes to read, digest, come back, read some more and then take action then an email reading is probably just the right fit.

On the other hand, if you are someone who can take in a lot of information at one fell swoop and move on it, a call is a better choice.  One is not better than the other – just different.  I have found it so helpful to record the readings so that I can listen back to them later on (even years later) to get a big picture overview of where I was at that particular time.  And because I think a recording is so valuable, I am in the process of getting that set up so I can offer these along with the phone readings in the near future.

But, getting back to an email reading – let me share some of the process I go through as I’m doing them.  Each intuitive has their very own way of doing this so I’m speaking only for myself here.

I have two affirmations that I use to “set” the energy before I do a reading which create the energetic space for me to do the work.  It’s not a necessity but more of a nice energetic ritual I use.  

Hands poised above the keyboard, I invite the Guides and Teachers of the person for whom I’m reading to join me.  (I can often feel them gathering ahead of time, actually.)  Then, I move my rational mind out of the way and start typing.  

(By the way, moving my “Lisa brain” out of the way is the hardest part of this work.  Fears, doubts, worries …. those all belong to Lisa because when I’m pulling down guidance none of that exists.)

Each reading starts with the words “Dear One” as a salutation from the Guides.  They speak in a unified voice, identifying themselves as “We” and can sometimes sound stilted and overly formal.  I’m not sure why that is but I see it often through other channels and recognize the energetic vibration as the same.  
In these readings, the Guides will address questions the reader has given me and will often elaborate on other topics as they deem necessary. I have absolutely no idea what they will say before I begin nor do I have a sense of where they will end up. Basically, I’m just the transcriber, not the author.  

As I’m doing the readings, I will sometimes make a note of what kinds of feelings, thoughts, energies I’m getting as I’m doing the reading and always clearly note that they are from ME and not the Guides.

Here’s an example:

(Guides: We suggest you ask us for a sign that will be your SIGNAL to take a step forward.  It can be anything from a flower, to a song, to a particular kind of car. Tell us what you wish to see as that sign and then look for it.  

Ah! But here’s the hard part – what will you do when you see it? Will you take it as a sign or will you just say “That’s a coincidence.” and remain in your cocoon?  You must make a deal with us as you ask for that sign – the deal is that when you see it, you must take an action that will help you bring your idea out of your head.  Let’s say that you want to tell a friend about your idea but are worried that s/he will think you’re not being serious. Take a risk and share it with them.  It’s important that you anchor your faith in us and trust with action in the physical. Otherwise, it’s all just lovely fluff, isn’t it?

 (Lisa’s note again: I am getting the feeling that bringing out this idea of yours is pretty pivotal. It feels to me as if a very strong and positive path hinges on it, even.)

 (Your Guides laughed)  Yes, that is correct, it IS pretty big.  We know you know that but don’t want to acknowledge it.  That’s okay.  Just sit with the idea a bit and you will become more comfortable with it.

another example:

(Guides:) And now, to your most pressing question (or the one that has the most energy behind it):  a romantic partner.   First, we want to acknowledge the inner work you’ve done to remove blocks, change patterns of behavior and to generally look hard at *your*self and what shifts are needed.  

 (Lisa says: they bow as one. Like a group of five monks saying “Namaste” to you in unison.  It feels very sacred and that they are truly honoring your big work.)

and one more:

Lisa’s final note:  “Even-keeled” is the key word for your Guides.  Balanced and peaceful but willing to nudge you harder when needed.  The energy shifted when I was writing about the clairvoyant skills – harder edged – like they were literally pushing me to push you.  Not as floaty as earlier.  Interesting shifts.

I wish I could invite you inside my head as I am bringing through the information because it’s pretty cool.  It just flows from a place that is not me.  That’s the only way I can describe it.  Often, it comes too fast for my “thinking mind” to process.  For one reading in particular, the energy was so blazingly quick that I couldn’t type fast enough to get it all written as it was coming through.   I had to ask them to slow it down just a tad so I could get it all. (They did.)

In the third example above you can see where I comment on any energy shifts or changes that occurred and what I felt as I was doing the reading, hoping this adds to the picture that’s presented.  The readings can take an hour or more, depending on what comes through.  I just type until I feel the energy naturally draw to a close.  (I sometimes hear the words “Peace out” which means they are done transmitting.)

Each reading is unique to the person I’m reading for – I don’t use a template or anything else like that.  My agreement is that I share what I get – exactly as I get it.  Early on, I tried to change a word in a reading claiming that the person won’t know what that word meant.  Yeah. The Guides were having none of my editing.  “This reading is NOT for you so it doesn’t have to make sense to you.” they said.  OH.  Alrighty then.  🙂   And so, nowadays, what I gets is what I types. To.  the.  letter.

A quick but important note:  your Guides will never tell you what to do.  Ever.  

To do so negates your free will. It’s the same reason they don’t just pop down and announce themselves in big Hollywood movie fashion. The nudges and suggestions are just that and you are free to follow them or not.  What I find is that Guides offer options to follow the path of your soul because they see the larger picture.  The choice is always yours to take action. (or not!)

If you’re interested in what your Guides have to say or you need a bit of clarity on a particular issue, schedule a reading now.     I can help put their words into your action right away.

(Dontcha know there’s a LOLcat picture for everything?)

Coaching by Email? Really?

Yes, really. What? You didn’t think it worked that way? Well, come on out of that box, Myrtle! We’re doing things a new way now.

You know how you can tell how your mother is just by the way she says “Hello” when you call? That’s your intuition at work. I knew all I needed to know about my mom’s state of mind by that one word. Or rather, the way she said that one word.

(What’s that? Not everyone’s like that, you say? I say they are if they’re paying attention – the thing is, lots of people aren’t.)

Well, I can do that same thing with email. As an empath and clairaudient, I can hear and feel the tone of the words you say and the energy behind it. I can also hear what you cannot say underneath the words. It’s what makes me a good coach by email.

I don’t have to hear your voice to know what’s up. It’s all in the energy.

E-mail Coaching Benefits

  • Easier for some people to express their thoughts in writing
  • Don’t have to find a quiet place to do a phone chat
  • Can e-mail any time of the day at a time that works best for your schedule
  • Easier to stay focused
  • Sometimes easier to be honest in writing rather than talking
  • You have a written record of your progress
  • E-mail coaching usually takes less time for you
  • You’ll be working one on one with me
  • Gives you time to think over your answers
  • E-mail coaching works best for people who:

  • Prefer writing to talking over the phone
  • Prefer to be in contact more than once a week
  • Don’t have much time to spend
  • Have difficulty finding a quiet place to talk on the phone
  • Find that e-mail relationships can be personal
  • I’ve always been a great advocate for others. Need encouragement? You’ve got it. Need a bit of a nudge? Right there with ya, baby. How about a hint about your next step? Your Guides and I got you covered.

    Because really, it’s not just me and my awesome intuitive skills working with you. Uh Uh! Your team of Guides are looking over my shoulder, offering ideas, suggestions and little signs here and there that you’re on the right track.

    Each week, your Guides in Spirit and I have a little chat where we review your goals, actions and thoughts (as shared in your emails to me) and send you back some of our thoughts and suggestions for the week ahead.

    When I do a reading for someone, a LOT of information comes flowing through. For many, it’s hard to take it all in AND do something with it. Coaching by email works much better in that bits of information come through at a time and you have an opportunity to put it into practice right away.

    Your investment for one month of coaching is $150. And for a limited time, if you book two months of coaching, the second month is just $100. (See the “Work with me” page for paypal links)

    If this sounds intriguing to you, email me and let’s talk. No cookie cutter coaching here – each plan is designed individually so you get what you need. Your Guides and I wouldn’t have it any other way.