Imagine you have two ropes between you and another person – one white and one gray.
The white rope is chock full of all the fun you’ve had, nifty vacations, and the joy you both have when with each other. That’s the Spiritual Tie.
The gray rope is full of the arguments, the time she was snitty with you and it hurt your feelings and the three times you didn’t really listen when she was sad.
That gray rope? It’s a crappy cord of attachment.
While you will never, ever lose the spiritual tie with another, you can release that blasted cord of attachment any time you like.
Yes, you can let go of your end of the gray rope and by doing so, release all the energy that’s flowing back and forth between you – the hurt feelings, the anger, even the competition.
Just drop that end of the rope.
But you get to keep holding on to the white rope and continue to feel all the joy that’s between you two. You don’t have to hold both ropes – just the one that makes you happy.
Energetic cords of attachment (that yucky gray rope) hold the energetic patterns between you and someone else – primarily the toxic patterns between you. Even when you end the relationship with someone, the patterns set in place during the time you were together flow back and forth in that cord 24/7.
When you remove the cord you essentially unplug from that toxic energy and opens you up to hold your own feelings without being influenced by the toxic stuff of another. It’s like unplugging a noisy air conditioner that no longer works well. It’s just noisy and you’re hot all the time, right?
Wouldn’t it be nice to just turn that off? Instant relief!
If you’ve got these patterns going on in your energy field all the time, they are affecting you on several levels – many of those levels are unconscious. But whether conscious or not, they affect you. How could they not?
Common cords of attachment are between parent and child, current and ex-spouses and partners, co-workers, friends — anywhere you feel a big “charge” around a person.
Three reasons to remove energetic cords of attachment
NUMBER 1: You are being affected every single minute by these toxic energies
Whether the flow of energy is into you or out of you, you are being affected on many levels – mentally, emotionally, intuitively … and in ways you might not see.
By removing that energy flow (in whichever way it’s going) you take back what is yours and use it for your own benefit.
Example: Let’s say that Sally and her friend had a big fight over that boyfriend from ten years ago. And while Sally has forgiven her friend for her part in the mess, secretly (in a place no one wants to admit to) Sally is still mad at her. She feels betrayed and angry.
Which way is the energy flowing in this case? Most likely FROM Sally TO her friend and in that cord are all those things Sally doesn’t want to talk about: betrayal, sure. Anger, yep.
But what about sadness, and feeling “less than” her because her boyfriend left for her friend? All that and so much more are running around in Sally’s energy field 24/7.
Really. It is.
By removing that cord, Sally is able to stop all that yuck from flowing out of her into her friend. She gets to use that energy she was putting out (on an unconscious level) for her own benefit. How nice to get a big WHOOOSH! of your own energy back, eh?
NUMBER 2: You come to an understanding of the dynamics that play(ed) out in the relationship.
When I peer into the cord and the energies it contained and share that, it helps validate for you what was really going on between you and that person. Where was the flow of energy? What did it say about the relationship overall? Lots of light bulb moments show up in this part of the healing work.
“Awareness is 99% of everything” says my coach Jaelin Reece. And it is. Having an understanding of the energetic dynamics helps you see where else that’s going on in your life.
NUMBER 3: You are just ending the toxic flow of energies between you and another. By cutting the cord of attachment, you’re not taking that person out of your life.
Sometimes, I get asked if cutting the cord means you’ll lose the relationship.
Not at all.
You now get to make that choice now FREE of all the yuck clouding the picture.
Example: Say you cut the cord with that annoying co-worker. You’ll still see them and can choose to engage with them on any level you want. What’s different, though, is the *charge* between you now is removed. Maybe it bugged you whenever they left early while you stayed and worked.
After removing this cord, it might feel like you’re just watching a movie of someone leaving work early rather than hearing the same old refrain in your head “How come she gets to do whatever she wants and I’m stuck here. My life sucks. I need a new job.” and on and on and on. Much easier to deal with from a distance, I think.
A session of energetic cord removal won’t make you taller, thinner (damn!) or smarter. But it will help you get rid of some toxic junk floating around in your energy field and allow you to see even more clearly what you want. I think that’s a lovely benefit!
Want to know even more about energetic cords of attachment? Here you go! Read on, McDuff!
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By Lisa Wechtenhiser
You might be surprised at what searches I see on my site although I’m not.
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Looks like energetic healing and how to move out some of those pesky entities are on everyone’s mind lately. I thought I’d give you some direct links to those topics right here. (Did you know I have three years of articles on here? I like to write, as you can see!)
Astral Entities 101: How they get stuck and how to remove them – they’re not evil spirits haunting your ass. They are merely those souls who have left their physical body and are in transit. Perhaps there’s some fear about that transition. Who knows? Suffice it to say, you do not need to allow them to siphon off your own energy. Shoo! Be gone with you, now!
And Are you hanging out with astral entities? – there are probably many more fun (incarnated!) souls to hang out with than these dudes. In this article, I list ways to know if you have some in your own aura. Be sure to close your energetic doors so they don’t sneak back in!
Finally, a podcast (transcribed in case you’re not an aural kind of person) – “I’m in your aura, stealing your energies” – Self Protection from Negative Astral entities In this podcast, I share a little affirmation that helps keep your aura free and clear of the astral critters.
Energetic Cords of Attachment
The sessions of aura healing and transformation through severing cords of attachment are among the most profound work I do in my practice. If you’ve never had an opportunity to experience the amazing work of Archangels Michael and Raphael, this is one of the places where they shine. Not familiar with what this is exactly? Read on and learn!
Three Reasons to Cut a Cord of Attachment – Here’s one BIG reason: Empowerment! Take back your power from places you’ve given it away (or had it stolen!) – see what it feels like to move that energy back into your own system for your own use.
Toxic Cords and Why They Need to Go shares a real-life example of how removing a cord could have helped my mom enormously in her life. (I only wish I knew how to do that back then.)
In this article, I talk about the role of Divine Beings in the removal of an energetic cord – it’s Archangel Michael who does all the heavy lifting. I’m his partner down here in the physical. It takes big, high vibrational energy to do this work so that’s why we call in the big guns. Always work with Divine Beings when you do any kind of healing work because they can hold the energy needed to create big shifts.
If you have some energetic healing work to be done, I’ve got some mad skillz!
I’m a clear channel to your team of Guides and Teachers and I am also a wonderfully high vibrational healer who can help you move out blocks and restrictions getting in your way. One session is often enough to move you through something that’s blocking you now and of course, if you’d like to do some in-depth work, I’d love to support you in that as well.
Visit the “Work with me” page for all the details on doing just that!
By Lisa Wechtenhiser
That line, from a song called “Therapy“, has long resonated with me. (And not just because sekrit boyfriend is singing it, either!) I think I understood the deep truths shining through those seven words.
You need both to grow spiritually.
Self-authority, the ability to discern what is truth *for you*, is imperative to guide you through the many faces of everyday life: religion, politics, sex, relationships, raising children – you need to be able to look inside and know, with enormous certainty, what is right for you. That deep inner knowing that comes without much intellectual analysis – the knowing that just ‘is’.
You can’t truly grow and ripen into your soul without this.
Because you need to be able to discern inner truth and allow it to guide you. If you are constantly at the sway of other voices, you’ll be pulled into things that may not fit you. And how can your soul experience true growth if you are not listening to its call?
And you need perspective– the ability to view things through a different lens. “it’s easy when it’s done being hard” is just that. You decide when you’re done allowing the “hard” to rule your life.
A while back, my coach suggested that I stop pushing so hard to make things work in my business. She said “why not step back and ALLOW the Universe to do its part?” I didn’t much like that. If I didn’t push, who would? Who would make things happen??
Turns out, the Universe, when allowed to step in (and I allow myself to step back!) can work miracles. That’s perspective. I gave up the need to push and decided to look at things a bit differently.
You were given free will by Creator of All. How can you use it wisely to support you? Self-authority and Perspective are just two keys but two pretty big ones clanging around on your spiritual keychain.
Are you done with it being hard?
Ready for it to be easy?
You’ll find that working on the energetic and spiritual plane (like what we do releasing cords of attachment) are amazingly easy. The changes, though, are BIG!
What are you ready to release with ease? Email me and let me know. Help is as close as your fingertips!
Let’s say you have a friend and for fun, let’s call her Gladys.
Well, she used to be your friend but lately something has happened and she’s turned against you. She’s been hanging out with your group of friends and not asking you along.
Come to find out, she’s also undermining your efforts at the job where you both work. Out of nowhere, your life has begun to suck and suck hard thanks to whatever Gladys has going on.
You decide that you can’t take it anymore and would like to just be rid of this whole mess. But you still have to see her at work. And your friends still want her to hang out when you all get together.
Outside of hiding in your house forever, what can you do to shift that situation? There’s no changing Gladys, right?
There’s only changing you.
So, you engage me to do a session of healing where we sever the energetic cord of attachment with your former pal. We call in the wonderfully amazing Archangel Michael to do the big work, Archangel Raphael to help with the healing afterwards and any other Divine Being you wish to have there as well. It’s a beautiful process where the cord that contains all the crappy toxic stuff between you and Gladys is removed, leaving only the nice stuff (memories that you cherish, unconditional love, etc.). We look at the patterns that were active between you both and often come to understand the underlying dynamics of the relationship.
Having both energetic healing and the conscious understanding of what was going on is a powerful way to shift this situation. It can make a huge difference in how you handle things because Gladys’s behavior may no longer poke you in quite the same way as before. Pretty cool, eh?
But, what about Gladys? Will she know we did some psychic level surgery that involved her aura? Will she look at you sideways as you walk past her at work?
Short answer: NOPE.
Longer answer: Your pal Gladys won’t feel a thing. That’s because, as far as her aura is concerned, nothing has changed. We know a LOT has changed on your side. But on hers? Nothing.
This is because of a little something called Divine Homeostasis. It’s a lovely balancing act the Divine Being in charge of your healing work does as a part of the job. Archangel Michael ensures that nothing happens to the energy of the other individual because they did not give conscious permission to sever that cord.
You did give that conscious permission (as part of our work) so you are the one who will feel the effect of it.
Gladys continues on, unaware that you’ve done anything at all.
Removing a cord of attachment is sort of like unplugging something from the wall socket. The power may still be on but there’s no cord there for it to flow through. The cord is still attached on Gladys’s side, but that energy is no longer being pumped into you.
How will your life change as a result of removing that cord of attachment?
That varies from person to person but one of the things I see most often in my clients is a feeling of distance from the situation. In the case of your friend Gladys, it could mean that her behavior no longer hurts the way it did before. We’ve removed the toxic stuff between you so it’s almost like you were watching her actions on a movie screen. You see them, but they don’t affect you the way they once did.
This is the most profound healing I facilitate in my work.
I’ve experienced having many of my own cords released and have seen first-hand the changes that can come from something seemingly so simple. And I’ve seen it with my clients as well. Big changes happen when you work on that energetic plane.
For more information on Cords of Attachment, what they are and why it serves you *now* to release them, check out these links
Listen to my podcast about cutting energetic cords
3 Reasons to Cut a Cord of Attachment
Purchase a Cutting Energetic Cord of Attachment Session
What happens in a reading?
Questions? Please comment below and I’ll answer them all.
Or, email me to discuss your situation privately and see if this healing would help you.
Bet you thought you could just snip a few energetic cords of attachment, line up your chakras and POOF! Your life becomes instantly fabulous!
I deliver the bad news in today’s podcast that it takes your willingness to be open to doing the hard work that starts the energy of the POOF!
But it’s so worth it. Trust me on this one.
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Hi and welcome to the weekly Practically Intuitive podcast. I’m Lisa and you can always find me at Practically Intuitive.com where I discuss matters of an intuitive nature from a range of different perspectives.
Last week I mentioned a special offer I have for the month of January only: I’m offering sessions to help you move out what no longer serves your highest good. Two hour-long sessions where we’ll identify what needs to be shifted, chat with your Guides to see what they suggest and then get it wrapped up into action steps for you. The link to purchase this special package is on the post for this podcast at Practicallyintuitive.com – come work with me and see how much you can get moving in just two hours!
Today’s topic is one that came up during a conversation with my coach Jaelin yesterday as I was catching her up from a hiatus over Christmas. Lots has changed for me in that time and it was really the fruition of months and months of work.
She said that so many people don’t really want to do the hard work to make those changes in their life – they have a drive-through mentality about spiritual work – come in, have a few cords cut and whoosh! Everything has changed. All the people who annoyed you before now magically disappear from your life and things are perfect.
Yeah, it’s not that way at all. We both know that even though there’s so many different modalities to help bring about change, there’s no magical answer. (And to that I say DAMMIT!) But there’s not.
I’ve had clients who are not willing to get in there and dig around, looking for the answers inside themselves. Because that’s really where it begins and ends – inside you.
When I was in my 30s, I spent a lot of time trying to save others. And there were many people who were only too happy to let me do that. I spent days and weeks and really years trying to help them. Why? To avoid looking inside myself. Much easier to try to save someone else, I thought.
When I realized that I was losing myself to save another (who, by the way, had no vested interest in saving himself – he rather liked all the attention), I knew I couldn’t go on that way. I had lost my life – I had willingly given it away. And so I took myself to therapy to begin the work of looking inside.
After years of talk therapy and not a whole lot of progress, I looked in another direction and found energetic healing work. And I started down that path. That was a better fit for me but even so, It has not been an easy road. But what is different is that I am open and willing to do the work. To dig in the dirt of my soul and find out what’s going on.
That’s the thing – any kind of healing work be it talk therapy, EFT, cutting cords of attachment – ANYthing – only works if you get in there and get your hands dirty, looking for clues and roadsigns. There are no easy answers. There’s lots of support from friends, healing practitioners, your Guides, Teachers and Angels but YOU must be willing to look under those rocks, in the closet, and under the bed.
As to what the work looks like? Can be anything, really. It depends on the person involved. For one, it might be to release what no longer serves them (which can be hard, if you think about it, because we all carry our crap baggage around even if it drags us down!). For another, person it might mean speaking up when it absolutely terrifies them. It’s as individual as we are. No one can tell you what yours is until you make the commitment to doing it.
There are no shortcuts to healing. None. Start with the willingness to do whatever you can, as best as you can. The time will come when you’re ready for the next step and it might not seem so hard.
From personal experience, I can tell you that it does get easier. Something that was absolutely gut-wrenching to me several years ago, where I couldn’t even entertain the thought of letting go, was released and done with ease this past year. I never thought I’d get to that point. But with lots of inner work and then putting that work into action, I was able to tackle something really big.
That’s the kinds of thing I can help you with because I know what goes into those big changes. I’ve walked that road myself – I still walk that road so I really do understand. If you’re not sure what “doing the work” means for you, take advantage of the January special and find out. It could change your life. And that’s not hyperbole, either! Your willingness is all it takes to open the flow.
That’s all for this week – please come join our Practically Intuitive community on Facebook and leave your comments, questions and thoughts there or right on PI itself. And if there’s anything you would like me to discuss, I welcome ideas and suggestions for topics.
This is Lisa from Practically Intuitive.com – have a good week! Bye for now.
I did two readings today and in both, my good friend Archangel Michael came galloping in to make his presence known. And in each, he specifically asked my client to actively call him into action so he can assist them.
Those who have had energetic cords of attachment removed with me know that I always call in Archangel Michael to do this work because his specialty is removing what no longer belongs. He slices and dices those cords for clear, permanent removal.
But he also does a great job offering protection to your house, land, even your beloved iPad! 🙂 He has an amazingly high vibration and a loving presence. You couldn’t ask for a better ally.
And remember: all you have to do is ask him (or any Divine Being) and POOF! They’re right there with you. Would I lie to you???
I’m off work all next week so if you’re itching to have a session with me, now’s a great time! I can do daytime or evening. This freedom doesn’t come around often (well, until I start doing this full time!) so shoot me an email if you’re up for some pre-holiday insight and healing.